Relationships
People with a power skill in Relationships are very helpful and supportive of others, mediate conflicts, and collaborate well with peers and coworkers. They are highly accepting of others; they are active, contributing members of different peer groups; they are very social, and they promote social harmony. People with a strength in Relationships know just what to say when someone is having trouble, know when to help, and when to leave someone alone. They are often quite physical as well, often making physical contact to comfort or connect to others. They are are empathic, caring, in tune with the emotions of others, and highly sensitive to the desires of the group.
While their empathetic connection with others is one of their strengths, they can also struggle with their desire to be part of and please a group and may lack a strong voice and sense of self. Those who specialize in Relationships may may struggle with depression or social anxiety. They may rely on others and the group climate for a sense of self. Feeling left out of the group or being bullied may be particular triggers for destructive behavior. One challenge of people with a specialization in Relationships is the perception that they are “clingy” and constantly pull for our attention.
Key Skills
- Empathy
- Pro-social Behavior
- Caring Nature
- Acceptance
- Harmony
- Ability to Mediate Conflict
- Collaboration
At Work
At work, a person with a strong Relationships resiliency will be a team player and work best when they are collaborating in groups. In order to succeed, they will to feel like they are in harmony with the group they're working with.
At Play
To relax, folks with strength in Relationships will enjoy spending time with their friends and families and feeling connected with others.
Needs
Relationships need to feel accepted and supported by others. Being a part of a group is a key way they form their identity. They need support and empathy from their friends and family and to feel like they're getting out of their relationships as much as they give to them.
Challenges
- Lack of autonomy
- Lack of assertion
- Overwhelming need to fit in
- Cliquey behavior
- Insecurity
- Internalization of problems
Talents
People with Relationships strengths are able to bond with others quickly and are empathetic and in-tune with the feelings of others.
